Friday, January 2, 2009

Excuses Excuses!

Hum, how to start this one... Have you ever felt like you just cant win? Like you want to be in a relationship, but the one you want doesn't see you that way. Or a really great guy may even like you, but he's just not the one due to age, or religion, etc.?
It's so hard to tell someone you're not interested, it's even harder to tell a friend. So many people try to be "nice" and make up excuses like "I'm not looking to date right now" or they may make tentative plans, but never follow through. I hate hurting peoples feelings! Why tall a lie or fib that in the end will sting more when they realize it, then tell the truth and have it burn for a bit, but in the end you gain there respect for being honest.
Im not gonna pretend Ive never wanted to lie, thinkin it would be easier, but I try not to do the things that I hate people doin to me. Why not give the same respect you expect from others to them! Just makes sense.

3 comments:

  1. I'm sorry it had to come to this, Jesi, but…I'm actually a beautifully crafted cyborg incapable of love or reproduction, designed by the Canadian military as an experiment in Romantic Warfare.

    It's not you, it's me.

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  2. jes.. who is this referiing to.. i plan to hear it all 2moro.

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