If u like me stop makin me guess!

Ok Boys, here is part 2, to my last blog. But girls, if your into the whole feministic view that girls should ask the boys, then you can learn from this too.
So here is the deal. I'm a firm "old school" believer in being pursued. I would love for a guy to tell me his intentions. None of this, I'm gonna sit next to you in a movie and hold your hand, business.
I'm a very nice person who doesn't like to make people feel like jerks, or look like them in public, but you can't just hold my hand! So all those times I've sat and watched a movie and have said nothing, was because I didn't want to make you feel bad in front of our friends.
Now I have noticed in myself, so I don't blame this intirely on the male population, that I cuddle way to much. I love to do it, and maybe Im sending out mixed signals? This is why usually I try to keep it to the people I know the best. Who know me, and know this about me. I do ask that you call me out, if you think I am sending you mixed signals, as I am going to have to try and call you out for doing the same. Which by the way I hate doing aswell. So know that it is a two way street.
About this flirting. Apparently, I have been told, I do not flirt. I always thought I was to flirty and have tried despritely not to be.. maybe this is why I'm "not" as of now.. Im not sure where I was going with this.. i guess I just want opinions..
Back to my rant.. if you are going to pursue me, I think it should be made known to me. For the main reason, I don't want to lead you on if Im not interested.. and if I am interested I dont wanna be sitting in the dark thinkin does he or doesn't he? why doesn't he say something if he is? because as I said, Im old school, and will never step into the 21st century and ask out a boy, becasue I dont believe that's how it should be done. Marriages lasted back in the day when the guys pursued the girls! Again, just my opinion.
I guess thats all I have to say. again, I love to hear the opinion of the people. So let me know if you agree.. or dispute my logic.. I dont know...